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Note To Self Blog
Short Notes on Psychology To Keep Your Thinking On Track


The Story You Tell Yourself: A Powerful Tool for Performance and Wellbeing
Avoidance feels safe, but what if it's quietly hindering your potential? Discover how our natural instinct to dodge anxiety can hold us back
Dr Jenni McArthur
Aug 152 min read


The Hidden Power of Healthy Narcissism: Why Self-Love Isn't Selfish
Healthy narcissism—balanced self-regard and confidence—is essential for peak performance and wellbeing, yet cultural bias has wrongly demonised all forms of narcissism. Research shows people with healthy narcissism are more successful, resilient, and empathetic. The key is balance: owning strengths while accepting limitations. Without it, we set lower goals and waste energy on self-doubt. It's not selfish—it's necessary.
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 94 min read


On Being Coachable
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… Being coachable - a concept with its roots in early sport psychology,...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Aug 2, 20242 min read


Not More Than Important.
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… Rules, goals, deadlines are not dire necessities. Even so, people have a...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jul 11, 20241 min read


Back to Base
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… A personal performance philosophy, which is a set of opinions of the...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 28, 20242 min read


Never All Bad.
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… When an important process, performance, or relationship goes wrong it's...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 20, 20241 min read


Stuck in the Future
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… We rarely get stuck in the future. Yet it is better to get stuck in our...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 14, 20241 min read


Through the Looking Glass.
When we reflect on our progress we generally take some time to look backwards on our days or important events to note what can be learned...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 4, 20241 min read


Emotions and Expert Performance
Did you know that in skill learning theory the anxiety associated with failure and the elation associated with success are an integral part
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 31, 20241 min read


Should We Control The Controllable?
Should we control the controllable?
In sport and performance psychology we have a famous phrase...
Control the controllable.
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 24, 20241 min read
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