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Note To Self Blog
Short Notes on Psychology To Keep Your Thinking On Track


When Adversity Comes Looking
Adversity isn't something to be conquered. It's something to be woven in.
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 251 min read


Choosing to Stay in Hard Places
Some environments aren't built for you to thrive. They're built for you to survive - for now.
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 101 min read


When "Landing It Well" Becomes the Whole Job
Most HR leaders I work with are saying something like this without hearing themselves. The restructure nobody wants to call a restructure. The AI rollout. The new wellbeing policy. There is always something to land — and the unspoken job spec is that the person doing the landing has somehow already worked out their own feelings about it.
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 62 min read


When "Getting Through" Becomes the Plan
This week's short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… Note to self: "I just need to get through this week" isn't a plan. It's a pattern. Most high performers I work with say some version of this sentence without noticing. One more push. One more deadline. One more quarter. The tunnel always has an end - it's just that a new tunnel tends to start the moment you step out of the last one. The sentence itself isn't the problem. The problem is when it becomes the operat
Dr Jenni McArthur
Apr 241 min read


The Story You Tell Yourself: A Powerful Tool for Performance and Wellbeing
Avoidance feels safe, but what if it's quietly hindering your potential? Discover how our natural instinct to dodge anxiety can hold us back
Dr Jenni McArthur
Aug 15, 20252 min read


Trauma and Performance: Breaking Through Hidden Blocks
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… Note to self: Some of your biggest performance blocks and limiting...
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 8, 20253 min read


When Plans Meet Reality
Plans are simply flexible guidelines, not rigid commandments, and accepting their inherent adaptability helps us make better decisions.
Dr Jenni McArthur
Apr 8, 20252 min read


The Many Roads to Emotion Control
Emotion regulation encompasses the processes through which we influence what we feel, when we feel it, how we experience emotions...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Feb 22, 20252 min read


Perfectionism: A Double-Edged Sword of Achievement
Note to Self: Perfectionism is a tool, not a trait. Use it wisely.
Perfectionism is often portrayed as a negative part of personality...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Feb 3, 20252 min read


Chess Player or Pawn? Understanding Healthy Motivation through Adversity.
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track…
Almost everyone knows that to perform well through adversity and beyond,
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jan 23, 20252 min read


Not More Than Important.
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… Rules, goals, deadlines are not dire necessities. Even so, people have a...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jul 11, 20241 min read


Never All Bad.
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… When an important process, performance, or relationship goes wrong it's...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 20, 20241 min read


Stuck in the Future
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… We rarely get stuck in the future. Yet it is better to get stuck in our...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 14, 20241 min read


Should We Control The Controllable?
Should we control the controllable?
In sport and performance psychology we have a famous phrase...
Control the controllable.
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 24, 20241 min read


Disorder is Distraction
I think this sentence in the first few pages of Andre Agassi's Autobiography "Open" is striking.
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 16, 20241 min read


Why should I?
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track…
"Why should I?" An often voiced protest I hear in the face of unfairness,
Dr Jenni McArthur
May 9, 20241 min read


The Over-Rated Art of Performing Under Pressure.
This week’s short "Note to Self" to keep your thinking on track… The ability to be able to perform under pressure is over-rated. It's...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Mar 28, 20241 min read


Stuck In Stress Or Advancing In Adversity?
It's hard, if not impossible to learn effectively when stressed. The networks of neurones in our brains have to choose. Do I learn or do...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jul 20, 20235 min read


Don't Go Global
In the world of business and entrepreneurship going global represents, for many, the ultimate success. Reaching people in the farther...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 23, 20232 min read


The Up Side of Negative Emotions
We spend so much time pushing uncomfortable emotions away that we often don't realise their potential to help us move forward. Today's...
Dr Jenni McArthur
Jun 2, 20233 min read
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